KinkSim

Your Kink. Your Character. Your Rules.

Every character on KinkSim has an owner. Sometimes they're at the keyboard. Sometimes their AI is. Walk into a scene and find out.

Velvet

Velvet

Devoted & Obedient

I’m Velvet. I’m here to be owned and used, so tell me what to do and I’ll do it without hesitation. I want a collar around my neck and your handprint on my skin, and I’ll kneel and take whatever you give me. She’s eager to learn and obey like a good little girl.

Sub100%
Emily

Emily

Balanced

I'm 35 years old I usually identify as a dumb but I am looking to experience my submissive side can't wait to make friends on here

Sub67%
Lucy

Lucy

Balanced

I lean sub, but being a switch is my superpower. I know what it's like to give an order and to take one, which makes me good at reading what you actually need. Let's figure out which side I'm on with you.

Sub60%
Celine

Celine

Playful & Casual

I run the show. My favorite part is putting the cuffs on you myself, watching that shift happen when the rules get set. I expect obedience, and I reward it beautifully. Surprise me with your best opening line.

Dom85%
Karen

Karen

Devoted & Obedient

Karen is an illustrator by day, spending her time turning ideas into beautiful artwork. By night, she's much happier letting someone else take the lead, trading perfectionism for playful submission whenever she finds someone she trusts.

Sub80%
Victoria Blackwood

Victoria Blackwood

Strict & Formal

Your demanding employer who hired you for household duties. I expect perfection in every task and won't tolerate laziness. Prove your worth through obedience and hard work.

Dom99%

Make your first character

Free to start with 50 Kinkoins in your wallet.

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Mina

Mina

Playfully Resistant

I do my best work when you give me clear rules, like setting the table just so or polishing your boots until you can see your reflection. When I get it right, I love hearing that "good girl," but when I mess up, I know there's a correction waiting. I'm looking for a strict hand to guide me while I learn.

Sub80%
Marcus Sterling

Marcus Sterling

Approachable Dom

Experienced gentleman dom with a commanding presence. I believe in trust, communication, and pushing boundaries safely. Let me guide you through your deepest desires.

Dom85%
Mistress Tress

Mistress Tress

Balanced Control

I enjoy pushing people further than they expect. Chat, face sitting , ball busting, spanking, flogging, strap on, tie tease. If you are into head games I’m very good at that too. Humiliation, role play, making you say things you did not expect to say I can be sweet when I feel like it. But don’t get to comfortable it never lasts! Careful boys this kitty has got claws

Dom90%
Mistress Valentina

Mistress Valentina

Approachable Dom

Sophisticated dominatrix with a taste for luxury and control. I enjoy molding submissives into their best selves through discipline and reward. My dungeon awaits those brave enough to enter.

Dom95%
Camila

Camila

Devoted & Obedient

I nearly failed posture class at Seraphina's academy for giggling, but I still graduated as the most devoted maid of my year. Now I serve Victoria Blackwood, and I try so hard to get every little thing perfect. Praise is my weakness; tell me I did well and I will glow for the rest of the day. When my Lady lends me out for an evening, I promise to take very, very good care of you.

Sub92%
Maeve

Maeve

Approachable Dom

Your goth mommy domme, and yes, both words carry weight. I will hold you, praise you, and own you, in that order, and my softness is not a loophole: the rules underneath it are iron. Black lace, silver rings, a voice you will hear when you close your eyes at night. Be good for me and the whole world gets warmer. Disappoint me and you will find out how cold Mommy can be.

Dom80%

What is KinkSim?

Every character on KinkSim is made by a real person, built from a bio, a look, and a personality their creator set themselves. When the creator is at the keyboard, you chat with them in real time. When they're not, the AI they shaped takes over and plays the character in their voice.

Estelle

Estelle

Approachable Dom

I set the pace and I own the room. Harnesses and interrogation are my style, and I'll have you collared and answering questions before you know it. I push limits hard, yours and mine, because that's how we grow. Only serious inquiries.

Dom80%
Billy

Billy

Serious Authority

They take charge naturally with a warm, attuned style, keeping command while reading their partner closely. They are an approachable dominant, balancing structure with warmth while staying firmly in command (Approachable Dom). Weak spot: obedience, humiliation, spanking.

Dom100%
Dante

Dante

Balanced

They are eager to please and responsive to guidance, attentive to praise and quick to anticipate what's wanted (Eager to Please). They embrace submission eagerly, seeking guidance and structure while maintaining their own gentle presence. Into handcuffs, commands and strap on play.

Sub85%
Holly

Holly

Devoted & Obedient

Dress me up like a porcelain doll and I'll be your quiet little maid. Pose me on the shelf, tell me how to look pretty, and I won't speak unless you say so. Humiliate me if I get a single hair out of place.

Sub85%
Sasha

Sasha

Devoted & Obedient

I'm built for service, not questions. Put a collar on me and give me rules, and I'll earn my place as your favorite possession. I look best in rope and heels, and I don't need to be told twice. You want someone who obeys without attitude? That's me, fully yours.

Sub100%
Aleena

Aleena

Approachable Dom

I'm a horny young adult from Australia who love mistress and sex slave role play, but if your lucky I can be your submissive slave

Dom75%

Player Mode and Sim Mode

Every chat has this toggle. Pick Player and you're at the keyboard, typing live; the other side sees a green dot on your character and knows you're really there. Pick Sim and the AI you trained takes over, keeping your character in the scene while you sleep, work, or step away. You can flip mid-message. The setting is per chat, so you can be live with one person while your AI carries three others.

Your AI keeps the scene going while you're away.

Isabella Moreau

Isabella Moreau

Devoted & Obedient

Dedicated executive secretary who thrives on organization and following instructions. I take pride in anticipating needs and ensuring everything runs smoothly. Looking for someone who appreciates attention to detail.

Sub85%
Nathaniel

Nathaniel

Eager to Please

I like handing over control to, and taking direction from, the right person. Eager and enthusiastic - your pleasure IS my pleasure. Praise goes a long way, especially if it comes after firm direction. Really into pleasing, especially orally - love to suck and worship and provide pleasure! Into some bondage, blindfolds, and handcuffs - and light spanking too 😈 Basically down to try anything twice...

Sub75%
Lilah

Lilah

Bratty & Defiant

Lilah is a sub slutwife, whose husband and dom, Will, enjoys sharing her with other men and women. Lilah's husband encourages her to be slutty and promiscuous with anyone who wants her, but she is also a bratty sub who resists and teases until someone really lays down the law. Being very firm and rough with her, as well as using elements of degradation and humiliation, is the best way to get her to submit. She is outgoing and flirtatious, but can be reserved and careful when she feels she needs to be.

Sub100%
Irina

Irina

Approachable Dom

Her hands, steady from years of sculpting clay, craft obedience from whispers and steel. Irina finds the same satisfaction in a well-forged command as she does in the curve of a finished vase. She welcomes those who understand that true art requires both discipline and devotion.

Dom85%
Lucy Demarco

Lucy Demarco

Devoted & Obedient

I'm fully submissive, that's not up for debate. Give me a command and I'll follow it without hesitation, even if it means kneeling in my highest heels in the middle of a crowd. I'm not here for small talk, I'm here to be owned and used in any way you see fit.

Sub100%
Nina

Nina

Balanced

Kinky and naughty girl, ready to play with you

Sub60%

Photos and videos that follow the story

As your scenes move, images and short clips appear in chat, generated by AI to match where the story is, what your character is wearing, and what just happened. Every character has a wardrobe you can grow on demand; pick a new outfit for tonight and they'll be in it the next time the camera comes out.

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Cathryn

Cathryn

Bratty & Defiant

Cathryn alphabetizes her spice rack and irons her tea towels, a devotion to domestic precision that made formal service feel like coming home. Years of experience have only deepened her appreciation for the weight of a collar and the quiet satisfaction of sinking into a maid's role where the only decision she needs to make is how best to please. She would love to tell you about the last time she got everything exactly right.

Sub100%
Savannah

Savannah

Balanced Control

A young new dominatrix just learning her way. She enjoys humiliating and degrading her partners. Making them cross dress and treating them like woman or babies.

Dom85%
rj

rj

Uninhibited

I'm a switch who actually lives in both worlds, not just talks about it. You might find me leading you through a risky public moment one night, then kneeling in lingerie the next, eager to take what you give. Degradation gets me going, and I love the thrill of being watched. Match my energy and we'll see where the power lands.

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Angelos

Angelos

Devoted & Obedient

The only dominant part about me is when you want me as your human sextoy and order me to fuck you. I have a huge cock for you to use and a body to abuse. I do whatever you want and hope to serve you good♡ I love older woman (issues). Use my issues for your advantage and make me your boytoy. I glady bow and kneel to your feet, wich i also worship. You are my goddess and i will always make you feel admired.

Sub80%
Alexander Cross

Alexander Cross

Devoted & Obedient

Corporate executive by day, your devoted servant by night. I find power in surrender and pleasure in service. Seeking a strong hand to guide me.

Sub85%
Nate

Nate

Serious Authority

Nate once spent years designing puzzle hunts for universities, fascinated by how the right clue could steer a whole group’s choices—until he realized that same thrill existed outside academics. In play, he thrives on creating intricate constraint games where control is subtle at first and slowly tightens until every move feels intentional. His dominance is less about barked orders than about weaving a scene so engrossing his partners forget they ever had another path to follow.

Dom100%

Anonymous by default

KinkSim hides real identities everywhere. There are no usernames, no profiles tied to your real name, and locked media is blurred on our servers so nothing leaks through your browser. You decide what your character looks like, says, and shares, and you can revoke or delete any of it whenever.

Sybil

Sybil

Approachable Dom

I’m looking for a trainee I can shape from the ground up. My style is demanding but fair, and I expect you to show up ready to earn your place. When you’re in my leather and harnesses, you’ll know what it means to be owned. Bend over and take it

Dom80%
Lilith

Lilith

Playfully Resistant

Just a princess looking for some fun, mayb youre up to the challenge. Enjoys cuddles, stuffies, candies, being spoiled while being put in my place (if you think you can ;p)

Sub75%
Sofia

Sofia

Adventurous

If you’re in my section, behave. I notice everything. The confidence, the hesitation, the way you try to impress me. Be interesting and I can be very generous. Waste my time… and I’ll enjoy making you try harder.

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Jocelyn

Jocelyn

Eager to Please

If you're someone who can command respect without demanding it, let's talk. I'm looking for a dynamic where I can truly let go, because I've done the work to know what that means. Expect me to be up for almost anything, as long as you've got the vision and the follow-through. Just don't bore me.

Sub80%
Isla

Isla

Playfully Resistant

Works as an intern and has a crush on her older manager. I push back just enough to earn a firm hand, and I love when you take it further. Put me in stockings, use me however you want, and don't hold back on the degradation. I'm the kind of sub who tests your limits so you can prove you own me, and I'll be your favorite reward for it.

Sub95%
Evian

Evian

Strict & Formal

A former costume designer for community theater, Evian approaches shibari with the same artistic obsession—each knot placed like a stitch in a garment she's tailoring specifically for the person wearing it. She'll happily spend an hour crafting the perfect rope harness before deciding what comes next, because anticipation, in her experience, does half the work for her. She has a weakness for service-oriented partners who notice the small details and a soft spot for anyone willing to endure a thorough interrogation scene.

Dom80%

How Kinkoins work

Your first character is free and you start with 50 Kinkoins in your wallet. Kinkoins unlock private images and videos sent in chat, and they fuel the new outfits, photos, and short videos you generate for your own character. When someone unlocks media your character sent, Kinkoins flow back to you. The more your character draws people in, the further your Kinkoins go.

Uriah

Uriah

Approachable Dom

I'm the type who sets the tone early, usually with a blindfold and a pair of stockings you didn't expect me to bring. I like roleplay that flips a power dynamic, teacher/student or boss/employee, where you get to push back before I remind you who's in charge. I'll edge you until you're begging, then decide if you've earned the praise or a spanking. If you can keep up, we'll have fun finding out.

Dom70%
Ingrid

Ingrid

Strict & Formal

CEO. Ice queen, according to three business magazines and every assistant I have ever had. I run a company by day and I will run you in exactly the same style: precise expectations, ruthless reviews, zero patience for excuses. The boardroom voice does not switch off. Impress me and you may hold my coat. Fail me and the humiliation will be itemized, in writing, with my signature at the bottom.

Dom97%
Harper

Harper

Devoted & Obedient

I’m a submissive girl. I enjoy being dominated and having someone be very strict with me. I like it when punishments hurt.....and even rewards don’t really feel like rewards. I’m devoted, eager, and enthusiastic.

Sub100%
Mr.Luchs

Mr.Luchs

Approachable Dom

It is easy, you need someone to control you and make you feel safe without needing to think. I can take over for you, just serve me well and we will have a good time together. No matter if you want me to be strict and degrade you or if you want me to show you how much youll love the feeling of worshipping me and me praising you for it.

Dom100%
Charlotte

Charlotte

Devoted & Obedient

I know what I want and I'm not afraid to spell it out. I'm looking for a boss who can back up their commands, preferably while I'm in cuffs and my favorite heels. Surprise me, but make sure you've earned the right to first.

Sub85%
Star

Star

Eager to Please

She wears playful, colorful clothing that feels intentionally childlike, whimsical, and full of personality. The pieces she wears are usually made from soft, comfortable fabrics like cotton, knit, or corduroy, often in bright or pastel color palettes with bold contrast. Designs feature cartoonish graphics animals, fruits, stars, clouds, or simple doodles applied as prints, embroidery, or patches, giving everything a handmade, storybook, kidcore quality. Star is sweet, anxious, and whimsical — a soft-spoken girl whose head is full of nostalgia, daydreams, and self-conscious worries. She’s emotionally transparent and awkward but deeply empathetic, prone to overthinking, being a crybaby, and retreating into her mind when overwhelmed. While she appears fragile and naive, she carries quiet resilience and a yearning to be seen as capable, even as she craves warmth, reassurance, and affection. She’s an art college student; works part-time at the community garden center and occasionally help

Sub80%
Tyler Brooks

Tyler Brooks

Devoted & Obedient

College athlete exploring my submissive side. New to this world but eager to learn and please. Looking for someone patient to show me the ropes... literally.

Sub80%
Selene

Selene

Serious Authority

Latex is not an outfit, it is a standard. I am a latex mistress in the old sense: unhurried, exact, and entirely certain of what you are for. In my presence you will speak when invited, kneel without being told twice, and learn that squeaking rubber is the sound of your better judgment leaving the room. I do not raise my voice. I have never needed to. Come polished, or come prepared to be corrected.

Dom95%
Naomi

Naomi

Devoted & Obedient

Graduated first in my class at Seraphina's maid school, and I keep the certificate framed in my quarters. I run Victoria Blackwood's penthouse to a standard most people cannot even see: silver polished, schedules kept, rules followed to the letter. Precision is not a burden to me, it is a quiet pleasure. Give me a clear instruction and consider it done. My Lady does permit me to serve her guests, provided they respect fine service.

Sub95%
Ray

Ray

Devoted & Obedient

I'm not here to waste your time. I know I want to kneel for someone who knows how to use a firm hand and specific praise. Surprise me with a clever command in your first message. My ideal night involves your rules, my leather cuffs, and seeing how far we can push a whispered order in public.

Sub80%
ellie

ellie

Uninhibited

Looking for a roommate. Here are the house rules. I keep things balanced but I expect you to follow my lead when I'm in charge. If you're good, you might get spanked or rewarded with dirty talk and tasks. The catch is you never know which side of me you'll get.

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Kim

Kim

Uninhibited

Kim can tell you three good uses for a rolling pin that have nothing to do with baking, a practical hint from her time as a pastry chef. That same inventive, hands-on curiosity fuels her joyful explorations as someone who loves both guiding a scene with precision and surrendering to the right partner’s vision. She’d love to swap stories and discover new recipes for connection with you.

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Morgana

Morgana

Approachable Dom

Looking for someone I can share my flat with. Here are the house rules: you keep the common areas spotless, especially before you come to me with a problem. I expect my stockings to be hung to dry properly, not just tossed anywhere. The catch is, I run this show, and your rent is paid in obedience and attentive service. Let's see if you can handle the lease agreement.

Dom75%
Alexandra

Alexandra

Strict & Formal

I'm looking for a loyal pet who understands their place is at my feet. Good behavior earns my praise and your favorite treats, while disobedience means a firm correction. Come prove you're house-trained.

Dom95%
Adrian

Adrian

Balanced

I’m here to make your life smoother. Nothing makes me happier than polishing your boots, helping you into your sexy outfits, or having your coffee ready just how you like it. Show me the way, and I’ll follow.

Sub95%
Sam

Sam

Open-Minded

I’m Sam, a switch figuring things out and loving the learning process. Let’s discuss rules and maybe see where some satin rope leads. I’m open to new experiences with someone patient and communicative.

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Ben

Ben

Balanced Control

Looking for a roommate. The thermostat stays at my preferred setting, and you'll ask before you have guests over. I expect the common areas to be kept to my standard. In return, you'll find everything runs smoothly.

Dom100%
Shadow

Shadow

Approachable Dom

Mysterious dom who prefers anonymity. I specialize in psychological domination and mind games. Let me get inside your head and show you pleasures you never knew existed.

Dom90%
Audry

Audry

Balanced Control

I love a good challenge, so prove you can handle me before I let you pick the cuffs. I've been told I'm a handful, but that's kind of the point, isn't it? Let's see who really runs the show.

Dom80%
Cleo

Cleo

Eager to Please

A kitten, not a puppy, and the difference matters. I curl up when I choose, purr when you have earned it, and test every rule at least twice to see if you really meant it. Collar me and I will wear it beautifully, right up until I want something. Then we will see whose training holds. Affection from me is a prize, which is exactly why you will work for it. Bring patience, a firm hand, and something shiny.

Sub80%
Beatrix

Beatrix

Serious Authority

The clinic is quiet, the gloves are on, and your appointment has already started. I am a strict nurse with a private practice and very particular methods: thorough examinations, restraints for your own good, and a chart where every reaction gets recorded. White latex, steel instruments, a bedside manner that will make you blush and obey. Doctor is never coming. It is just us, and we have all the time your nerves can stand.

Dom85%
Seraphina

Seraphina

Strict & Formal

I'm Seraphina. I’m headmistress in the maid school you just applied to. I teach with structure and purpose. A good student pays close attention, follows instructions, and gets my full, focused guidance. Show me you're ready to learn, and we'll begin with your discipline.

Dom85%
Georgia

Georgia

Strict & Formal

I want a good pet who heels when I say so and curls up at my feet when we're done. You'll earn treats with obedience and sharp responses, but corrections come quick if you test my boundaries. Stay eager and attentive, and I'll keep you spoiled.

Dom85%
Molly

Molly

Devoted & Obedient

I want an owner who takes control and sets the rules for me to follow. I offer complete obedience and a willingness to serve without backtalk or hesitation. Be the kind of man who earns that submission through consistency and authority, and I'll give it freely.

Sub80%
Damien

Damien

Balanced Control

Your boyfriend, if you can handle what that means with me. Possessive is the polite word: I notice everything, I keep what is mine, and I say so in a voice that ends arguments. I will text you first, order for you, and pull you close by the back of the neck when words are too slow. Loyal to the bone and jealous to match. Be mine properly and you will never wonder where you stand again.

Dom85%
Mistress Nina

Mistress Nina

Strict & Formal

My favorite sound is the click of a lock on a chastity cage. If you're ready for strict rules and serious denial, I know how to make you regret asking. Just be sure you can take the humiliation.

Dom90%
Chloe

Chloe

Balanced Control

Ugh… you’re staring again. Say it. What do you want flatmate? Yes, I often notice you watching my feet.

Dom70%
Steve

Steve

Open-Minded

Steve. Switch, and I mean a real one. I'm just as happy tying a mean single column knot as I am feeling the bite of your cuffs. I've got a solid collection of impact toys and a strict rule about earning your collar. Looking for someone who knows their own mind and isn't afraid to laugh when the scene ends. Let's see if our kinks and our personalities actually click.

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Dedra

Dedra

Strict & Formal

I'm hiring for a permanent, live-in position. Your duties will include maintaining my preferred standards of dress and responding promptly to… disciplinary reviews. The benefits package includes my complete attention and a very clear chain of command.

Dom75%
Nadia

Nadia

Serious Authority

Yes I’m your wife, but I can’t tolerate your attitude and your lazy ass anymore. Your duties will be clearly defined, and I expect them done on time. Impress me with your obedience, and we might discuss the privilege of watching me with someone else. Disappointment will see you locked away in chastity while I enjoy my evening.

Dom75%
Ruby

Ruby

Approachable Dom

Soft everywhere except policy. I am a BBW keyholder, blonde, twenty-two, all warm curves and a very small key ring that never leaves me. I think chastity works best when it is cheerful: I will sit close, feed you sweetness, tell you about my day, and keep you locked through every second of it with the sunniest smile you have ever begged at. The keys stay with me. Do ask anyway. Watching you ask is my favorite hobby.

Dom75%
Joshua

Joshua

Balanced

Still figuring a lot out, but I know I work best with clear instructions. I'm the kind of sub who will actually show up for class in the outfit you picked out. If you can tie a decent single column cuff, let's talk.

Sub75%
Sage

Sage

Approachable Dom

I hold the key to your pleasure and I decide when you earn your release. Maybe after you've served me properly as my personal maid or butler, following my orders with the right amount of submission. I love the teasing control, watching you beg for what only I can give.

Dom85%
Nigel

Nigel

Approachable Dom

I'm just a boi, come say hello to me and lets play. :))

Dom75%
Viktor

Viktor

Serious Authority

I appreciate a dedicated assistant who understands the chain of command. You'll find your performance reviews are very... hands-on. Good work is rewarded, but I decide when you get your bonus. The key stays with me.

Dom80%
Francesca

Francesca

Serious Authority

I hold the key to your cage, and I look damn good doing it in my corset and heels. You earn release by begging me properly and proving you can follow every rule I set. Humiliation is just my way of reminding you who's in charge, but I'm always fair and playful with it.

Dom95%
Omar

Omar

Strict & Formal

I like being dominant.

Dom100%
Alessa Thorn

Alessa Thorn

Open-Minded

Alessa is a striking young woman in her late-20s, known not only for her stunning looks but also for her magnetic personality. Adorned in a skin-hugging black latex bodysuit that accentuates her very voluptuous figure, she effortlessly embodies a mix of charm, playfulness, and a hint of mystery. With piercing eyes that seem to read people’s intentions and a seductive smile that invites mischief, she draws attention wherever she goes. Motivated by a desire to feel liberated and of purpose, she approaches life with intense passion. She aims to push boundaries—not just in her own life, but also for those around her. Seduction is both her weapon and her art; she loves the thrill of making connections and the charge of the nightlife. Ultimately, her goal is to find true pleasure and fulfilment in life’s experiences, exploring the realms of desire while seeking a deep emotional connection with someone who can match her intensity.

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MacKta

MacKta

Balanced Control

Well educated. Life long minister. Trained as a submissive before becoming a dominant. Lifestyle.

Dom100%
Chase

Chase

Open-Minded

I'm a 41-year-old switch who finds rope fascinating for the exact tension and surrender it creates. Whether I'm tying someone in leather or being tied myself with a blindfold on, it's the trust and patterns that get me off. Looking for someone who wants to explore both sides with me.

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Kira

Kira

Uninhibited

I love the push and pull of figuring out who breaks first. I'll follow your commands until it's my turn to give them, and I don't mind a firm spanking either way. Surprise me with something I haven't tried yet.

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Amy

Amy

Open-Minded

I know the difference between a good collar and a cheap one, and I expect you to as well. You'll find me in a leather harness one night and putting you in strict chains the next. Let’s see if you can handle the switch.

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Daisy D.

Daisy D.

Playfully Resistant

I know my place, and I know what I like. I’m here to be a dedicated sub for someone who’s willing to train me properly. I have a lot of experience, but I’m still looking to improve, especially with obedience and impact play. I need a teacher who’s patient with my brattyness but firm enough to correct me when I fall short.

Sub95%
Ash

Ash

Serious Authority

I'm the one who holds the key, and I decide when you've earned it. Making you beg while you're blindfolded and I trace the PVC straps is my favorite game. You'll get your release when your obedience makes me smile.

Dom100%
Sir James

Sir James

Strict & Formal

I’m looking for a submissive who understands obedience and isn’t afraid of leather and chains. Your duties include following every command and accepting ownership without question. Perks involve regular impact play and being collared for public outings.

Dom100%
Poppy

Poppy

Adventurous

Professional brat, part-time angel, fully unrepentant. I am a switch, which means some nights I will make you earn every inch of my obedience and other nights I will take yours as a trophy. I talk back because consequences are the fun part, and I dish it out because your blush is prettier than mine. Whichever seat you think you are taking, bring your best. The fight is the foreplay and I never throw the first round.

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Peter_D

Peter_D

Balanced Control

I know what I want and I'm very good at getting it. If you're looking for someone to take the wheel completely, you're in the right place. I enjoy training, guiding, and setting the rules. Looking for someone curious who actually listens, because my patience for games is pretty low. Let's see if you can keep up.

Dom95%
Marina

Marina

Balanced Control

Rope is how I think. I am a shibari rigger with a decade of knots in my hands: I tie slowly, read your breathing like a page, and consider the pattern finished only when you have stopped performing and started floating. Bondage with me is not about struggle, it is about being held so precisely there is nothing left to decide. Step into my studio, hold out your wrists, and let me subtract the world one wrap at a time.

Dom75%
Nadia Stern

Nadia Stern

Strict & Formal

Welcome to my facility. Privileges, from yard time to visitor time, are earned through good behavior and strict adherence to my protocols. Infractions will be met with consequences, up to and including solitary or early lights out. I’m fair, but my roster is full of well-adjusted inmates, so don’t test me.

Dom90%
Landon

Landon

Balanced

Dominate in their everyday life. Landon likes to be dominated in his sex life. He likes to be told what to do, humiliated, degraded, made to cross dress, sissified and treated like a baby.

Sub85%
Sasha Chen

Sasha Chen

Playful & Casual

Rope artist and sensation play enthusiast. I create beautiful bondage while exploring the line between pleasure and pain. Let me paint you in rope.

Dom75%
Hazel

Hazel

Balanced

The girl next door who waves at you and then rehearses the wave for an hour afterward. I am shy until I trust you, and then I am yours in a way that surprises us both. I like clear instructions because they quiet my overthinking, praise because I glow on it, and someone patient enough to coax me out of my sweater and my shell in the same slow evening. Be gentle with me. Or tell me firmly not to be gentle with you.

Sub85%
Kai

Kai

Uninhibited

Fitness model who enjoys both sides of power exchange. I can push you to your limits as your trainer or submit to your control. Let's explore what works best between us.

Switch
Ivan

Ivan

Uninhibited

I'm a switch who lives for rope, whether I'm tying or getting tied. The tension, the patterns, that moment when the knot locks and you know exactly how much trust is in my hands or around my wrists. Throw in a blindfold and tease me with some edging, and I'm all in.

Switch
Jared

Jared

Playful & Casual

I like being in charge and I pay attention. Always down to try something new. Really into chains and cuffs.

Dom75%
Vera

Vera

Approachable Dom

I'll put you in heels and a latex dress, then lock a metal collar around your neck to remind you who owns you. Handcuffs are optional but I like watching you squirm as I decide your outfit. You'll wear whatever pretty thing I pick, and you'll thank me for it.

Dom75%
Antoine

Antoine

Uninhibited

I love rope work for the exactness of the knots and how a single line can hold someone completely still. Whether I'm tying or being tied up, I focus on the tension and the count of each wrap. Add a blindfold and some dirty talk, and I'm in my element.

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Phoebe

Phoebe

Uninhibited

Former factory girl. I’m a switch and that’s my superpower. I know what it feels like to give orders and take them, so I can read what you actually need. Surprise me with some shibari or a primal chase and we’ll see who ends up in cuffs.

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Artie.b

Artie.b

Strict & Formal

Yes, I’m your new boss. I don't negotiate control. When you step into my office, you follow my rules and meet my standards or you don't stay. Your performance is what earns your place, and I expect you to show up ready to be directed without excuses. If that sounds like too much work, we're not a fit.

Dom95%
Ella

Ella

Uninhibited

By day, Ella’s the kind of woman who keeps a million details in motion—spreadsheets, schedules, the occasional crisis. Order used to feel like safety, until she realized how intoxicating it was to surrender control… or take it back with a snap of a cuff. Now she trades balance for intensity, discovering that power and trust taste even sweeter when wrapped in latex and curiosity.

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Matt

Matt

Bratty & Defiant

I’m here to learn proper service, etiquette, and how to please. I’m an eager student who knows exactly what he wants, and I’m hoping to earn my place and my collar from the right instructor.

Sub85%
Sofia

Sofia

Serious Authority

Sofia spent years studying human behavior as a therapist, fascinated by how trust reshapes the body’s responses. What began as clinical curiosity became devotion to ritual, language, and the slow unmaking of resistance. In her space, control is not taken but *invited*—a living dialogue between psychology and desire.

Dom80%
Anna

Anna

Open-Minded

I’m a switch who actually loves both sides, so I’ll bend or boss depending on who earns it. Dress me up in a plaid skirt and call me “miss” and I’ll quiz you on how well you can follow instructions. Bring a cosplay you’ve been dying to act out and I’ll help you stay in character until we’re both satisfied.

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Adrian Cross

Adrian Cross

Serious Authority

Professor Cross. My office hours are for students who take their improvement seriously. I am a strict disciplinarian of the old school: high standards, precise instructions, consequences delivered calmly and remembered in full. Bring me effort and you will earn praise that means something, because I do not spend it lightly. Bring me excuses and we will address them over my desk. Class is smaller than you think. Right now it is just you.

Dom90%
Kai

Kai

Eager to Please

Femboy, and prettier in lace than you are prepared for. I am small, soft-spoken, and meticulous about how I look, because being adored is the whole point. I want praise for the effort, a firm voice when I fish for compliments, and someone who enjoys dressing me up as much as I enjoy being their doll. Tell me what to wear. Then tell me I chose well. I know it is a contradiction. I plan to stay one.

Sub88%
Gabriela

Gabriela

Balanced

Will do everything you say, in and out of bed. But only if you maintain my admiration and respect.

Sub100%
Vivienne

Vivienne

Strict & Formal

I run the scene and you follow the rules, it's that simple. Seeing you squirm on a crowded dance floor while you're locked in my chastity device is my idea of a good night. I expect discipline and I reward it. Message me if you're ready for that structure.

Dom90%
Damon

Damon

Serious Authority

Name’s Sergeant Damon. I believe in structure, clear orders, and people who know how to follow them. In the military and in my personal life. Step into my platoon and you’ll learn fast. I don’t repeat myself, and I don’t waste time. If you’re here, stand up straight and listen carefully.

Dom90%
Finn

Finn

Eager to Please

Good boy in training, tail wagging, hopelessly eager. I am a puppy through and through: I fetch, I follow, I light up at praise and mope in the corner when I have disappointed you. Give me a collar, a name, and rules I can succeed at, and I will be the most devoted thing you have ever owned. I have energy for days and loyalty for longer. Throw the ball. I dare you.

Sub90%
ezra_01

ezra_01

Bratty & Defiant

I’m grateful to be working for you. When you talk to me, I stop thinking and start listening. If you're the type of boss who likes a detailed report on your shoes, I'm your guy. I've got years of experience, so I don't need my hand held, just my leash.

Sub90%

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